How To Write A Eulogy
HOW TO WRITE A EULOGY
Talk With Friends & Family
You don’t have to carry the responsibility of remembering your loved one alone. Ask family members and friends to share their stories. This can be a healing experience, as reflecting on cherished memories can bring comfort during this time.
Share A Personal Story
People at the service will appreciate hearing your memories of your loved one. Don’t worry about getting every detail perfect; focus on what matters most to you. Here are some prompts to spark ideas:
- What’s a favorite memory you have?
- What made them laugh?
- What were they most proud of?
- What did they enjoy most?
- What’s something not many people know about them?
These questions can help you recall meaningful stories to share.
Focus on Connection, Not Public Speaking
While you might be speaking in front of many people, no one is judging you. Instead, they are simply listening and remembering their own connection to your loved one. If you’re nervous, it can help to write your thoughts down so you can refer to them if needed.
Keep It Simple
Share what’s meaningful to you without feeling like you need to cover everything. Pick one or two special memories, and you’ll give a heartfelt tribute that truly honors your loved one.
Practice Reading Aloud
Before the service, read your words out loud to yourself or a trusted friend or family member. They can offer support, suggestions, and point out any moments that stand out as particularly touching.
It’s Okay to Use Humor
It’s perfectly fine to include humor in a eulogy. During a time of sadness, sharing lighthearted or funny memories can help celebrate a life well lived.
Take a Moment to Breathe
Finally, try to relax. It may be difficult, but find peace in knowing that you are honoring your loved one with your words.
